exhibition

Patryk Różycki
My Girlfriend is my Friend's Girlfriend

Polana Institute
Stanisława Noakowskiego 16/35
October 17–November 15, 2025

Tue-Fri, 4-7 pm
Sat, 12-7 pm

Patryk Różycki’s latest painting cycle explores the experience of love within a chosen family he has formed with his friends. The artist falls in love with his closest friend’s partner, and attempts to depict a relationship that defies conventional notions of love and intimacy. When love enters a friendship among three people, it generates an intensity that demands honesty and open communication.

The exhibition can be read as a diary in which time, rather than sex, emerges as the central protagonist. Time provides a traditional, stable framework for a love story that many would consider unconventional. Różycki structures emotions around key moments – “before” or “after” events such as the beginning of the relationship, the first declaration of love, or the first shared video call with parents. This chronicling impulse takes on a therapeutic function. Fears of intimacy, rejection, and social ostracism gradually lose their paralyzing power as time itself becomes an ally of the love triangle. Closeness, intimacy, and a sense of safety are able to take root in this demanding relationship through the mutual respect with which the three participants measure their shared hours.

The city emerges as another, albeit secondary, character in the cycle. The Zachęta gallery and the cafés “Towarzyska” and “Amatorska” provide the backdrop for the unfolding emotions. Gaudily lit monumental buildings momentarily distract from the couple or trio in the foreground, symbolizing the need to bring a private love story into the public sphere. All those involved consciously agree to make it public.

The most intimate and disarming moments, at times uncomfortable for the viewer, are not the sex scenes. Różycki depicts jealousy through everyday objects – a discarded condom wrapper, the closed door of a friend and partner’s room. The embarrassment stirred by such natural emotions sends shivers through the viewer, while their exposure borders on pleasure.

Although candid and direct, the sex scenes in Różycki’s work are governed by rules that preserve the intimacy of those portrayed. The artist paints his own body unflatteringly, in darker, unnatural tones, rendering himself a kind of abstract backdrop for the alabaster, stylized body of his partner. The lovers’ faces, by contrast, appear austere, stripped of softness, almost neutral.

More personal are the paintings in which the artist “observes” his beloved in everyday situations or converses with his friend in the bathtub. As a result, no single work dominates the cycle. Emotions are distributed evenly, and, as in a computer game, each painting becomes a necessary element that enables progression to the next stage.

Exhibition view

Selected works

We lay on the couch in my room, resting after sex
Patryk Różycki We lay on the couch in my room, resting after sex oil on canvas 2025
At the Orlen gas station in Łódź, we signed the car purchase agreement – the three of us and Mr. Mariusz
Patryk Różycki At the Orlen gas station in Łódź, we signed the car purchase agreement – the three of us and Mr. Mariusz oll on canvas 2025
At the Royal Botanic Hotel in Lublin, during a trip at the end of Martyna’s second doctoral semester

Patryk Różycki At the Royal Botanic Hotel in Lublin, during a trip at the end of Martyna’s second doctoral semester
 oil on canvas 2025
Martyna walking to the bathroom in the apartment of the Polish Institute in Vienna
Patryk Różycki Martyna walking to the bathroom in the apartment of the Polish Institute in Vienna oil on canvas 2025
Our first official date at the Glory to Sappers monument by the Vistula Rive
Patryk Różycki Our first official date at the Glory to Sappers monument by the Vistula Rive oil on canvas 2025
That was probably the first time I truly wanted to be with her and thought that maybe we could make it work

Patryk Różycki That was probably the first time I truly wanted to be with her and thought that maybe we could make it work
 oil on canvas 2025
The three of us went to see the Open Group exhibition at Zachęta. At one point, Martyna took our hands and we walked like that for a while
Patryk Różycki The three of us went to see the Open Group exhibition at Zachęta. At one point, Martyna took our hands and we walked like that for a while oil on canvas 2025
Our first conversation about how we feel regarding the changes brought by the beginning of my relationship with Martyna
Patryk Różycki Our first conversation about how we feel regarding the changes brought by the beginning of my relationship with Martyna oil on canvas 2025